Quiz: What's Your #1 Love Block?

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What Is Your Biggest Love Block?

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**Q1 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your recent/current experience with dating?

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I get very anxious about meeting new people, and online dating terrifies me. I try not to put myself out there too much, to avoid the possibility of rejection.

If I meet a really great guy who gives me lots of attention, I'm bored and not attracted. I only get really interested if they are not really giving me what I want.

I always seem to say the wrong thing and scare them off early. As soon as it starts to go well, I mess things up. I rarely get past 2 or 3 dates with someone new.

I have a hard time even getting dates... When I do, it rarely gets to date #2, and I'm afraid it's because of my weight, my age, or my looks.

I keep to myself. I've been too scared to risk dating again.

I can't get my ex out of my head. I keep other opportunities at arm's length so I can remain available in case he ever gets his act together and loves me the way I want to be loved.

I have a long vetting process before I'll even consider a date with someone. I basically interrogate, investigate, and push men away to test them. A lot of times, they lose interest before we even get to a date... Unless he's unavailable in any way... THEN, I chase.

I go on lots of dates, and I tend to have a lot of "mini" relationships of 1-3 months... but it just never works out and I don't know why.

I date a good bit, but I'm selective. I have a great time on most dates, and I enjoy just getting to know someone. I usually get asked out for a second date, but I only accept when I know there is a great match.

**Q2 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your relationship history?

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I have been hurt in a lot of ways, but nothing hurts as much as being rejected.

I have chosen the wrong guy, time after time.

When I do find someone great, I have a way of screwing it up.

I settle for less than I deserve, because I feel like nobody great will want me because of my weight, looks, or age.

I have been scarred by abuse or a toxic relationship with a narcissist, so I don't really trust myself to have good judgment when it comes to men.

I keep making the same mistakes over and over, going back and revisiting past relationships. I have trouble letting go of the idea of what I thought someone/something *could* be.

It takes me a long time (if ever) to trust and be vulnerable.... so my relationships tend to fizzle before they get too deep.

I seem to run into a new problem with every new person I meet. I think I have one issue licked, and another one pops up in its place. I have no idea what the problem is and I sometimes worry that maybe I'm just meant to be single.

I have mostly had good relationship experiences. Even though they didn't last forever, I have learned and grown from them, often remaining friends afterward. I just haven't met the right one yet, but I know he's on the way!

**Q3 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your ideal** relationship at this point in your life?

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I just want someone who actually wants me as much as I want them. I don't know why that is so hard to find.

I want to be with someone who treats me with respect. Someone honest, faithful, and reliable... but who I also find very attractive. I don't think I've ever found those two things together in one guy.

I want to be in a relationship with great communication and peace, where it's easy to be together. I am tired of stupid arguments and drama.

I want to be with someone who makes me feel beautiful and sexy and cherished, like I'm the only woman in the world for him. I want to feel so safe with my partner that I can get over my insecurities and just be happy and comfortable in my own skin.

I want to be able to trust my partner, and my own judgment. I don't want to be hurt or betrayed any more. I want to feel safe and loved.

I want to be able to let go of the past and build a future with someone who is different from the kinds of guys I've always ended up with. I want to break out of the toxic patterns I've been repeating for so long. I just don't know how, and I don't 100% believe yet that it's possible.

I want to finally feel free to open myself up. A relationship where I can share my dreams, my hopes, my fears and insecurities, without fear of being judged.

I really don't know what I want, because when I think about all the things I want in a partner/relationship, I feel like I'm asking for too much -- like that person can't possibly really even exist.

I want it all, and I know I deserve it. I want passion, romance, and fun.... and I also want peace, contentment, and security. I want an equal partnership and friendship with my perfect lover. I want to be adored and inspired to adore him, too. Fidelity, honesty, and deep connection. Building a life (and maybe even an empire) together.

**Q4 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes how you feel about online dating?

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I think online dating is horrible, and everybody is fake and always looking for someone better, younger, prettier, thinner... or just new.

I can't choose or attract a decent guy in real life, what makes you think I'd do any better online?

Meh. I guess there's some good and some bad in the "new way" of dating... but I don't have any idea how to really do it successfully.

I hate it. I'm so nervous that when they meet me in real life they won't like the way I look.

I am very leery of trusting anyone I meet online... even though the guys I've met in real life haven't been trustworthy either.

I flat out refuse to do it. I prefer to do things the old-fashioned way.

I am super-skeptical and I don't really like it, but I guess it's a necessary evil these days.

I am torn. Sometimes I think it's cool, other times I think it's pure torture.

I think it's great because it allows me to filter out a lot of the wrong guys based on my standards before even wasting too much time on dates. I love that I get to learn something about a guy before chemistry clouds my judgment. I believe it's a tool like any other, and what matters is knowing how to use it to your advantage. Plus, it's simply the reality of modern dating, so I am going to embrace it.

**Q5 (of 13) ▶** When you think about putting up an online dating profile, what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

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What if nobody is interested in me, or I get ghosted? Or what if I find a guy I like and then when we meet in real life, he doesn't like me?

I couldn't do any worse than the guys I've dated before!

Fine, I'll do it. But I don't really trust anybody on there and I doubt it will work.

I'm worried I'll be judged, rejected, or ignored because of my body, my age, or my looks.

I am terrified of putting myself out there only to get used and abused again. How do I know a guy isn't toxic or abusive like my ex?

Online dating isn't for me. I'm old-fashioned and I've heard horror stories about catfishing. It's not worth it.

I tried it once or twice and it didn't work. Why bother?

I'm willing to give it a try. I'm smart enough to watch out for red flags and keep myself safe. What's the worst that could happen?

Let's do this! I think dating is fun, and this is just the 21st century way of doing it!

**Q6 (of 13) ▶** When you are getting ready to go on a first date with someone you haven't met in person before (or just don't know very well), what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

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What if he doesn't ask me out on a second date?

What if he turns out to be not who he says he is?

What if he's great but I somehow scare him off and blow my chance?

What if he thinks I'm too fat/old/ugly?

What if I have a panic/anxiety attack?

I don't want to do this. This is out of my comfort zone.

We'll see if he can even hold my interest or pass my tests.

I really can't take another date that doesn't go anywhere. If this doesn't work out, I'll just give up.

I'm a tiny bit nervous, but mostly excited. This should be fun, and at the very least, maybe I'll learn something, have a few laughs, or make a new friend!

**Q7 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about "true love?"

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I believe true love exists, but I don't have confidence that I will ever find it myself.

I am not sure if true love exists, but if I found it I'd probably pass it by and hook up with some loser instead.

I believe true love exists, but I probably already found mine and messed it up.

I believe true love exists, but I need to lose weight or have plastic surgery to find it.

I think true love exists, but it's too painful and not worth the risk.

I believe true love exists, but I lost it and don't know if I'll ever find it again with someone else, so I keep trying to rekindle an old romance.

I don't believe in true love. I believe that others who say they have it, are either faking or fooling themselves.

I am not sure if true love exists, and I'm even less sure that it can last.

I believe with all my heart in true love, and I know that I am destined to have it in my life.

**Q8 (of 13) ▶** How confident are you in your own attractiveness?

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I feel like I'm pretty attractive, but I'm afraid men don't see me that way.

I'm feel like I'm attractive, but only to all the wrong guys.

I can be attractive, when I'm all made up and dressed up.... but the rest of the time, not so much.

People tell me I'm pretty, and I think my face is okay, but I believe my weight and/or my age makes me a lot less attractive to men.

I've had other people (like an ex or a parent or my peers) tell me I'm ugly or fat or sloppy, and it really has destroyed my self esteem.

I'm better looking than average and I deserve a partner who is, too.

I guess I'm average.

Depends on the day. Some days I feel pretty, other days I feel very unattractive.

I have my little insecurities like everyone else, but I still know that I'm beautiful and sexy!

**Q9 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about yourself?

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I am a good person, and I know I have a lot to offer, but I'm scared others won't give me a chance enough to see that.

I think I'm a good person, but I know I keep making bad choices. Makes me wonder if I'm hard to love.

I know I'm lovable if I could just get out of my own way.

I wish I was thinner, younger, and/or prettier. I'm a good person on the inside, but I worry that the world judges me by the outside more, and that nobody is going to really love me the way I am.

I have a huge heart and I give so much. I sometimes wonder if I should just turn cold and stop loving and giving so much because nobody loves me back the same. I sometimes wonder what is wrong with me that makes people keep abandoning, hurting, using and betraying me?

I am a little set in my ways, and I put up walls, but underneath, I am a good person who deserves love.

I am loving and lovable... but I struggle to let people in.... However, once I feel safe, I love deeply. It just takes me a lot to feel safe.

I feel like I love myself... but my actions, and what I tolerate from men, seem to indicate otherwise, and I don't know how to change that.

I am very lovable, and I don't need to be loved by everyone to believe that. I am open and honest about who I am because I know that the right person will love me for exactly that.

**Q10 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your decision-making when it comes to love and dating?

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In the past I feel like maybe I have gone for guys who are out of my league and then wound up getting rejected... so then I just "settle" for guys I'm not really that into, because it's better than getting hurt.

I have made a lot of bad choices -- liars, cheaters, narcissists, losers, etc. I don't know why I keep getting it wrong. I'm starting to think that "good men" are a myth.

I've dated some bad guys, and some great guys, and some in between. But when I find a good one, I always seem to find fault, or pick fights, or run the other way and screw it up.

I tend to choose guys who aren't really what I want, partly because then it hurts less when they leave, and partly because I don't really believe I can get the guys I would really want.

I feel like I can't trust my own judgment when it comes to love. I've been wrong too many times.

I think I make good choices, but they just somehow never work out. I feel like I just have bad luck.

I somehow always end up in situations with unavailable (or at least emotionally unavailable) men.

I don't know any more. I'm so confused when it comes to dating, I wonder if it's even worth it.

I may make a mistake from time to time... but I dust myself off, commit to choosing better next time, and and move ahead toward my goals.

**Q11 (of 13) ▶** How important is it to you right now to find healthy, lasting love?

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It's important, but I'm not sure if it's important enough to risk the pain of rejection.

It's important, but not enough to settle or wind up with the wrong guy again.

It's really, really important to me... so why do I keep messing it up?

I've all but given up. If a miracle happens, I'll take it, but I'm not very hopeful that real love is available to me.

Love hurts. No thanks.

I have more important things to worry about. It's not that important.

If it happens, great. If not, that's fine too.

I am really frustrated, busy, tired, and frankly, scared... but I want it very much, I'd say it's at the top of my priority list right now.

What could be more important than love?! I have a beautiful life, and I'm ready to share it with someone amazing!

**Q12 (of 13) ▶** How willing are you to try new things, and make changes in your own beliefs and behaviors in order to find love?

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I'm willing to try, but slowly and cautiously, because I'm afraid of getting rejected or hurt.

I recognize that my own choices are the problem, therefore I need to choose better so I find the solution.

I try hard to change... but every time I do, I find myself making the same mistakes all over again and going back to square one. I'm totally willing to keep trying, though.

I obviously need something to change, because I suck at love.

I try to embrace change, but sometimes I get triggered when I am pushed outside of my routine. I'm willing to try, but I don't know if I can.

To be honest, I have a real problem with change. I have a hard time letting go of old romantic connections, old behaviors, and old beliefs.

Why should I have to change to find love?

I know I need to make a change to have a different outcome. I'm ready.

I am totally willing to make changes. I love to learn and grow and make myself better, because I know I deserve the best!

**Q13 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes where you are in your life right now?

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I am reasonably successful in most areas of my life, but I know it could be better all around if I wasn't co concerned with what others think of me.

My inability to choose appropriate romantic partners has negatively affected multiple areas of my life, making me not as successful or fulfilled as I could be.

In every area of my life, including love, I get sooooo close to having everything I want... but then I sabotage myself in some way and take several steps backward.

Other than love, I feel successful in most areas of my life. The only other area where I could use some help is in self confidence, and/or body image.

I am struggling in pretty much every area of my life. From finances to confidence to personal fulfillment to family to love.

I mostly have my act together, but still struggle with finances and love.

I am in a good place except for love, and I worry that everything could get messed up if I let someone get too close to me.

I am successful and fulfilled in all other areas of my life. Love is the one area where I crave a massive transformation. It's the missing piece to my happiness puzzle.

I am successful, fulfilled, and happy in my life overall. And I feel confident that it's just a matter of time before I manifest my perfect love.

How Smart, Successful Single Women Manifest Soulmate Love in Just 3-6 Months

What Is Your Biggest Love Block?

**Q1 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your recent/current experience with dating?

**Q2 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your relationship history?

**Q3 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your ideal** relationship at this point in your life?

**Q4 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes how you feel about online dating?

**Q5 (of 13) ▶** When you think about putting up an online dating profile, what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

**Q6 (of 13) ▶** When you are getting ready to go on a first date with someone you haven't met in person before (or just don't know very well), what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

**Q7 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about "true love?"

**Q8 (of 13) ▶** How confident are you in your own attractiveness?

**Q9 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about yourself?

**Q10 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your decision-making when it comes to love and dating?

**Q11 (of 13) ▶** How important is it to you right now to find healthy, lasting love?

**Q12 (of 13) ▶** How willing are you to try new things, and make changes in your own beliefs and behaviors in order to find love?

**Q13 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes where you are in your life right now?

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How Smart, Successful Single Women Manifest Soulmate Love in Just 3-6 Months

What Is Your Biggest Love Block?

Q1 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your recent/current experience with dating?

Q2 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your relationship history?

Q3 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your ideal relationship at this point in your life?

Q4 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes how you feel about online dating?

Q5 (of 13) ▶ When you think about putting up an online dating profile, what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

Q6 (of 13) ▶ When you are getting ready to go on a first date with someone you haven't met in person before (or just don't know very well), what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

Q7 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about "true love?"

Q8 (of 13) ▶ How confident are you in your own attractiveness?

Q9 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about yourself?

Q10 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your decision-making when it comes to love and dating?

Q11 (of 13) ▶ How important is it to you right now to find healthy, lasting love?

Q12 (of 13) ▶ How willing are you to try new things, and make changes in your own beliefs and behaviors in order to find love?

Q13 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes where you are in your life right now?

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**Q1 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your recent/current experience with dating?

**Q2 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your relationship history?

**Q3 (of 13) ▶ Which of these statements best describes your ideal** relationship at this point in your life?

**Q4 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes how you feel about online dating?

**Q5 (of 13) ▶** When you think about putting up an online dating profile, what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

**Q6 (of 13) ▶** When you are getting ready to go on a first date with someone you haven't met in person before (or just don't know very well), what is the first and most persistent thought you have?

**Q7 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about "true love?"

**Q8 (of 13) ▶** How confident are you in your own attractiveness?

**Q9 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your beliefs about yourself?

**Q10 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes your decision-making when it comes to love and dating?

**Q11 (of 13) ▶** How important is it to you right now to find healthy, lasting love?

**Q12 (of 13) ▶** How willing are you to try new things, and make changes in your own beliefs and behaviors in order to find love?

**Q13 (of 13) ▶** Which of these statements best describes where you are in your life right now?